Are You Always Right?

Sometimes, if not more often, you relationship(link in) is fail caused by your own mistake. It could be hard to admit it, but you have to look upon yourself before blaming someone else. After all, we are all just human. It should be our destiny to make mistake. You must take any necessary initiative to consider what you might have done to contribute to your failing relationship. 

 

You are not always right, are you?

Your partner could be your best juror to judge whether you are the one who typically insist you are right or not. If so, you might be jeopardizing your relationship. You are not helping your relationship, your partner and even; yourself.

How to measure it?

 

It's easy. One of the methods is by remembering the time you had argument or discussion with your partner. Did you seem to point out that you are right? Did you insist whatsoever that your partner is wrong?

 

Let's think about this for a second…

 

However, saying that you were right probably isn't going to solve the problem. Talking louder when defend your argument is not going to make you more right either. On the contrary, how would you feel if your partner did the same to you?

Unfortunately, when you tend to split to be the right party, you are distracting the discussion from the real issue. Your relationship is not going to be better.

There are always some kinds of way to have "better fight". All you and your partner have to do is just setting up some rules. A set of convention of several couple provide each other sign when the fight is starting to be unhealthy. Others discover that bring to a close of conversation is better. Then, breathing a few deep breaths to calm. You can also leave the room for a second to gather yourself and then attempt to lesser your voice when you come back.

At last, your main task is just to COMMUNICATE.