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Is it true that the absent of fight somehow prove your relationship healthy?
Well, that would be too simple.
The definition of a good relationship has evolved since the embracement of new knowledge. Today, most people want more. Following are just a few signs of a healthy relationship.
PASSION
After a long time of togetherness, are you still on fire to your partner. This question is vice versa. Are you sure that your partner still have spark on you? Again, are you sure? When did you last time check it out? Sure its not your subjectivity?
LAUGHTER
It's easier to laugh alone. But to make 2 person laugh together is not easy at all. The question is, after sometimes, can the two of you still laugh? Can both of you share the same sense of humor? Laughter is not just a simple indication for a relationship; it's also play a huge role. It works day by day, while you were watching movies, seeing something funny or just hearing some funny stories.
TOGETHERNESS
How much time do you spend with your partner? Do you still motivate to set aside time just to be together? How about friends and interests? Do both of you share each other?Some couples spend a lot of time together because they really enjoy it, while others spend a lot of time together out of fear of being alone.Are both of you fine when you are not together?
TRUST
Trust is everything. Without it, there would be no harmonious relationship. That's why, you should ask yourself, is there any trust between two of you?
Does trust keep solid even when the relationship getting more difficult? The level of trust itself can be up and down through time. So, how does each of you maintain the trust? You can't say that it's just flow. Specific rule must be taken to somehow find a way to keep trust is still in the air.
UNDERSTANDING
The most important aspect of understanding could be how you listening. Listening is not easy as you thought. People tend to talk more and to listen less. By being a good listener, we also learn to understand and accept.Now, the question is … Doing you each feel heard, understood and accepted? Can you share anything including your secrets with your partner?
Well, that would be too simple.
The definition of a good relationship has evolved since the embracement of new knowledge. Today, most people want more. Following are just a few signs of a healthy relationship.
PASSION
After a long time of togetherness, are you still on fire to your partner. This question is vice versa. Are you sure that your partner still have spark on you? Again, are you sure? When did you last time check it out? Sure its not your subjectivity?
LAUGHTER
It's easier to laugh alone. But to make 2 person laugh together is not easy at all. The question is, after sometimes, can the two of you still laugh? Can both of you share the same sense of humor? Laughter is not just a simple indication for a relationship; it's also play a huge role. It works day by day, while you were watching movies, seeing something funny or just hearing some funny stories.
TOGETHERNESS
How much time do you spend with your partner? Do you still motivate to set aside time just to be together? How about friends and interests? Do both of you share each other?Some couples spend a lot of time together because they really enjoy it, while others spend a lot of time together out of fear of being alone.Are both of you fine when you are not together?
TRUST
Trust is everything. Without it, there would be no harmonious relationship. That's why, you should ask yourself, is there any trust between two of you?
Does trust keep solid even when the relationship getting more difficult? The level of trust itself can be up and down through time. So, how does each of you maintain the trust? You can't say that it's just flow. Specific rule must be taken to somehow find a way to keep trust is still in the air.
UNDERSTANDING
The most important aspect of understanding could be how you listening. Listening is not easy as you thought. People tend to talk more and to listen less. By being a good listener, we also learn to understand and accept.Now, the question is … Doing you each feel heard, understood and accepted? Can you share anything including your secrets with your partner?
Pic is "Creation of Adam", by Michelangelo
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